Sunday, April 12, 2009

On Getting Old

Although I've been think about blogging since the meteorlogical first day of spring, my new blog begins today.

Through the decades since my birth, no particular year has caused me as much mental anguish as this one. In 1960 I looked forward to 21 as did all young people coming of age. At 30 no longer being "trusted" had no meaning. The 40's were busied with trying to establish myself. 50 had no significant meaning, only another marker along the path. Although I did feel I reached the west side of the mountain. 65, the next major milestone, brought semi-retirement with more time to do different things -- travel, write...there was no time to get old.

2009 is not like any of the other years. I am reaching to that marker where my mind tells me old age begins.

I know I am not old. After all my bathroom mirror reflects the image of that rakish, slim man who whispers how well I look. Unfortunately, some time the snap and crackle of the joints obliterates his complements.

I think I may need help passing this up-coming milestone. So I've decided to present my thoughts this year. You need to forgive the ramblings of this soon-to-be old man. I've never blogged before and may not always do things properly.

To sweeten my way along the tenuous path laid out before me in this year, I've decided to present myself and to you also a piece of candy. As Ms. Poppin says, "a little bit of sugar makes the medicine go down". With your help I may pass into that age of oldness without any wrinkles.

Here we go.

My wife, Rosemary, and I drove together to the health center for our workout. The day was cold and grey -- the start of another typical Chicago springtime. The blustery winds swirled, what I hoped to be, only a few flakes of snow. The white, crystalline flecks struggled through the morning stillness. While stopped at a traffic light, one of the flakes gently alit on the front windshield. The sun chose that minute to peek from behind a cloud and illuminate the tiny, starry wonder. The symmetry and uniqueness burst forth. This creation shone like a beacon in a difficult world.

How much are we like this tiny point of light. Each of us different but bringing our own special attribute to light the lives of those around us. Yet we are all the same -- trying to make the journey interesting and beneficia.

Till the next time -- Ciao.

5 comments:

  1. Hi Wally,

    I enjoyed your piece on growing old I too have reached that magical number on March 18th. Since Rosemary and I went to school together, I mistakenly thought she joined us this year. Oh well, it's just a matter of months. I guess I'm also having a little bit of a problem with the magical number. However, when you think that we enjoy an active life, being able to travel and do things we like, it isn't so bad.

    I still work. I tutor grammar school children both from Dist. 64 and privately. I find a lot of satisfaction in that pursuit. My 92 year old mom is staying with me after having a heart failure episode last week. I'm glad that we can spend some time together. Enjoy your milestone and many many more!

    Amy McAloon

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  2. Happy Easter to you - it is nice that you want to communicate with us seniors. Let us know what topic you want to discuss. I think it is great you are all trying to stay active.

    Marilee and Rich Wilke

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  3. No way you are 69, Wally. You look younger than me, and I'm 49. Maybe its the fact that you look like the earth is happier that you are a part of things. Keep onm posting, you might want to know that on Blogger, you can post photos. That's really what got me into it. Hi to Rosemary from the crazed loon you call your friend, ha ha. --Wayne

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  4. Blog away buddy. As far as getting older, only start to worry when you look in the mirror and find you're not there. Andy

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